Do I Ever Think About You if We Arent Connected Online

Do I Ever Think About You if We Arent Connected Online My three closest friends dont participate in any form of social or business networking. Youll never find a business profile, status update, family photo, or even a poke from any of them on any online networking platform. While I ponder a social media intervention I continue to reach out to my friends on their terms which includes email and phone contact and an annual snail mail holiday card. I have to admit, its a lot more work to keep in touch this way and it takes more thought and planning on my part. But since these three friends mean the world to me, I try my best to stay in touch.But what if I werent as close to these people? Would I bother? Wheres the threshold between making someones life easy and too much work? What if you are a job seeker? During a search, you need a lot of contactsboth strong and weak networking links. Remaining top of mind with the weaker links is tough when you solely rely on email, a phone call, or a holiday card. With those limited means of communicatio n and interaction, will your network bother to stay in touch? I often hear people complaining that social media is a frivolous waste of time. I disagree. I think its a time saver and an efficient way to keep up with people and let them know whats going on in your world. This makes people feel connected. Feeling connected makes people more likely to offer help and advice.I talked to one of my closest friends this week. Its been a long time since we spoke. Long enough for major events to occur in both our lives without the other one having a clue about it. I must admit that I was a bit sad when I realized that 300+ virtual friends know what I did last weekend and one of my dearest friends hasnt known whats been going on with me for much longer.Imagine sending your resume to a recruiter and letting it sit in his database for years versus reaching out to recruiters on LinkedIn or Facebook to actively network with them. Think about the implications of sending a resume into the job board black hole versus building engagement with a company via their Facebook fan page. Contemplate leaving a weak networking contact 10 unanswered voicemails versus including them in an online dialog. Social networking works. Whether its for maintaining friendships or managing your career.